To My Dear and Loving Husband

To My Dear and Loving Husband by Anne Bradstreet: Background

'To My Dear and Loving Husband' is a 12-line poem written by Anne Bradstreet (1612‐1672), an English Puritan woman who moved to New England and became the first American poet. 'To My Dear and Loving Husband' was published after the poet's death in the poetry collection, Several Poems Compiled with Great Variety of Wit and Learning, Full of Delight (1678).

This poetry collection is a revised and expanded edition of Bradstreet's acclaimed poetry book, The Tenth Muse Lately Sprung Up in America (1650). The Tenth Muse Lately Sprung Up in America was the first book to be published in both England and the American colonies.

The poem 'To My Dear and Loving Husband' is assumed to have been written between the years 1641 and 1643. It is a love poem to Anne Bradstreet's husband, Simon Bradstreet. The two came from prominent English Puritan families and were some of the first settlers in America as part of the Massachusetts Bay Colony. Anne Bradstreet married Simon when she was sixteen and the two had a happy marriage and eight children together.

Bradstreet's poem is written from the perspective of her Puritan faith. Puritanism placed great emphasis on the importance of marriage and family life and relationships. Bradstreet's poem expresses her love and devotion to her husband through Biblical imagery and allusions, as well as through the idea of heaven and eternal life.

Fig. 2 - Bradstreet read the Geneva Edition of the Bible, which is an English translation of the Bible originally published in 1560. The Bible greatly influenced her poetry.

To My Dear and Loving Husband: Full Poem

Below is Anne Bradstreet's poem 'To My Dear and Loving Husband' in its entirety.

To My Dear and Loving Husband: Summary

In the poem, Anne Bradstreet writes to her husband about how the two of them are one in the conjugal love of marriage. She expresses her happiness in being his wife and says that she values her husband's love over money and tangible riches.

Bradstreet expresses that she desires her husband's love more than anything and this love is beyond monetary and transactional value—it is something to be shared and given rather than repaid. Bradstreet prays that her husband receives many blessings and that their love and faith in God should increase steadfastly. She hopes they may live together forever in heaven when they die on Earth.

To My Dear and Loving Husband: Analysis of Form

'To My Dear and Loving Husband' is a 12‐line poem comprised of six rhyming couplets. The poem is a love letter from Bradstreet to her husband, expressing her deep affection and devotion. The poem is also a variation of a sonnet. Although it contains 12 lines rather than the traditional 14, it is written in iambic pentameter and focuses on the theme of love, as is commonly seen in traditional English sonnets.

Bradstreet makes the sonnet form her own by using rhyming couplets throughout. The rhyme scheme of the poem is AABBCCDDEEFF. The rhymes lend a song-like and riddle-like effect to the reading. Bradstreet presents her notions of love in a riddle-like manner to make the reader think and figure out her words to ultimately form an understanding of the ideal relationship between husband and wife.

To My Dear and Loving Husband: Literary Devices

Anne Bradstreet uses literary devices in her poem in order to show the extent of her love in a clever, engaging way.

Anaphora

Bradstreet opens her poem with the use of anaphora, the repetition of a word or group of words at the beginning of consecutive statements.

Bradstreet repeats the phrase "If ever" in the first three lines to emphasize a possibility and its fulfillment. She first calls the reader to question the ideal possibilities of unity, happiness, and fulfillment in marriage. She then uses the confirmation of these things in her own marriage to proclaim her love for her husband and suggest that they share an ideal relationship that is to be cherished.

Allusion and Imagery

Anne Bradstreet uses Biblical allusions, or references that create rich imagery, to describe her faithful love.

Writing about her love being more valuable than "whole mines of gold" alludes to the Bible, in which faith and God's word are said to be more valuable than gold. This allusion, along with the picture of "all the riches that the East doth hold," suggests opulence, wealth, and abundance. Bradstreet uses this visual imagery in order to suggest that her love for her husband is more valuable than any earthly treasure.

The line, "My love is such that rivers cannot quench," is an allusion to the biblical Book of Solomon, which says "Muche water can not quench love, neither can the floods drowne it."¹ The Book of Solomon is a love poem written from the perspective of two lovers. It compares the love between man and woman to the love of Christ for his people and his church.

As the Book of Solomon is known for being passionate and romantic, Bradstreet suggests the passion and romance of her own marriage through this allusion. The natural imagery of the "rivers" that cannot be satisfied or run dry, suggests Bradstreet's everlasting desire for her husband's love and that her own love will never run dry. It is ever-flowing, but also ever-seeking.

Fig. 3 = Bradstreet uses the imagery of a river to suggest her unending and unquenchable love, which will only be fully satisfied in heaven. Bradstreet's everlasting love for her husband is a reflection of God's unending love and constant forgiveness of his people. Water symbolizes the purification and cleansing of sin in the Bible.

Antithesis

Bradstreet uses antithesis in the poem's final line, drawing attention to the ideas of life versus death.

Antithesis is the direct contrast of two ideas placed side by side. While it initially appears contradictory that Bradshaw writes that she hopes she and her husband may live when they are no longer living, it makes sense in the context of Bradstreet and her husband's Puritan faith. Once their lives on Earth are over, she hopes they can live together forever in the heavenly eternal life. Bradstreet expresses the Christian view that love is a virtue that carries into heaven.

To My Dear and Loving Husband: Theme

The poem 'To My Dear and Loving Husband' focuses on the themes of marriage and love—particularly, the ideas of earthly and heavenly love. Bradstreet does not speak of marriage as a civil contract, but as a spiritual union. She describes how she and her husband are truly one and how her love for him is powerful, prevailing, and priceless. Her greatest desire is to share in his love, and his love means more to her than any earthly riches.

Nonetheless, however strong her love for her husband may be on Earth, she recognizes that it can only achieve its fulfillment in the perfection of heavenly love. The love of her husband brings the speaker a sense of heaven on Earth. She hopes that their love continues faithfully and they can share it even in the afterlife.

¹ 'Song of Solomon,' The Geneva Bible, 1560.