Personal Space

Personal Space in Psychology

What one person may think of as personal space may differ from another. People with say social anxiety may have difficulties maintaining close contact. However, this may be the opposite for those who are highly extroverted.

Who the individual is with can also influence personal space. You will probably be more comfortable standing close to your best friend than a stranger. These factors suggest that our relationship with others and mental health can influence personal space.

The Personal Space Meaning

Before we learn more about the different types of personal space, let's find out what exactly personal space means.

Personal space can be considered a boundary with which one feels comfortable. However, these boundaries can be violated in specific situations, such as when confronting someone or if a person is unaware of the other's boundaries.

Personal Space in Communication

Usually, when we talk to others, there are unspoken rules, such as taking turns to speak and maintaining a suitable distance from the other. When you have a close or intimate relationship with the other person, during the conversation, you may maintain close proximity.

However, distant proximity may be kept when talking to a stranger, someone you are not close to or dislike. Over time, as the relationship changes, the personal space may change as you get more intimate or distant from the other.

Personal space is our "comfort zone". When it is breached, we often begin to feel uncomfortable.

From this, we can understand that personal space is a type of non-verbal communication that allows us to express without saying anything the intimacy of a relationship, express our emotions and let others know when we are uncomfortable.

Personal Space and Individual Differences

As you may recall, the personal space an individual feels comfortable with can vary from person to person, but what factors contribute to these differences?

Edward Hall (1963) coined the term proxemics, the study of how we use space and how our experiences and culture influence personal space. The domain highlights that several factors influence personal space. Understanding these differences can help people understand and ensure that our presence does not cause discomfort to others.

Let's delve in to learn more about some of these factors!

Personal space that individuals feel comfortable with is influenced by individual differences such as culture, status and gender, freepik.com/macrovector.

Cultural Differences

The personal space we are comfortable with can be influenced by cultural differences.

Western society is often referred to as an individual society.

In western countries, people usually keep a relatively large distance from strangers, and when greeting someone new, a handshake is typically used.

Whereas in heavily dense populated countries such as India, being close, even when in contact with strangers, is common and may not make them feel uncomfortable. The reasoning behind this is that standing close to others is a common thing due to the lack of room for personal space.

Status Differences

Status differences can influence personal space. If your boss pats your back and says well done, this is acceptable.

However, if an employee does this, is it as well received?

The answer is no. The higher status of the boss allows them to provide feedback to employees that is well received, as it is expected. The lower status of the employee doesn't permit them to have close proximity to their boss, however, as it would be considered inappropriate.

Sometimes breaching others' personal space is used as a tool to enforce their high status.

Gender Differences

There is much debate about whether males or females prefer more distanced personal space. Some argue that males prefer more psychological and physical distance.

In contrast, some suggest that females prefer to maintain more distance due to fear.

A more holistic way of looking at gender differences and personal space is that males and females have different preferences or responses to those seeking to get closer to them.

It's important to note that gender differences are likely to differ in people of different ages and depending on the setting/context of the situation.

The Study of Proxemics

Now that we understand how personal space for one may differ from another', let's learn about the different types of personal space that Edward Hall proposed.

Types of Personal Space

During Halls' research on proxemics, he identified four types of personal space (interpersonal space):

• Intimate Space - the distance between two people is usually about 15 to 45 centimetres. Intimate distance suggests that you have a close relationship and that both are comfortable. Examples of this type of personal space are when people hug, kiss, and touch.

• Personal Space - the distance maintained is usually between 45 and 120 centimetres. Personal distance usually occurs when talking or in the presence of those with whom we have a somewhat intimate relationship with, such as our close friends and family.

• Social Space - typically, the distance ranges between 1.2 to 3.5 metres. In this context, social space refers to the distance you keep when meeting acquaintances.

• Public Space - is when the distance between two people ranges from 3.5 to 7.5 metres. Public distance is common when doing public speaking activities such as presenting to your classmates.